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Author:
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babygirl
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Date:
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08/28/2008
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Subject:
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Re: long distance breakup
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Message:
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I have kept him on my messenger, but i do not talk to him just no contact.. i want to pay him back for the things he paid for me because i dont want to have him thinking i loved him as some gold digger cause he did give me a lot financially. I think he felt unappreciated and one sided he was giving me so much and I didnt have much to give back becuase career wise i wasnt stable, the sad part was right around the break up i landed a great career.. and was ready to start with more visits and send him more special things and start contributing to us more and my own bills and expenses..then calling him gay made him feel pretty bad i guess and more unappreciated. I dont see how i could repair it..because he was so mad and upset he didnt communicate to me well that he was so upset, but he calls it warnings as in he might say " you shouldnt do that" for some reason he thinks i never listened to him or his advice and i did most the time.. a few times i made my own decisions with the money he gave me, but i guess it made him mad because he was giving the money. Of course i planned on paying the money back.. and i guess i didnt see he felt so unappreciated I feel bad for it and calling him a name hes a great guy. I wish there was something i can do to repair this.. he hasnt msged me in days i dont think he ever will. How can i get over this I guess hes just really done the last he said was i dont want anyone right now, and just that we can talk, and he said im sure one day we can visit. I asked him if that was some string along and he said no but that was strange. Im just doing no contact right now and trying to take it day by day.. but I need advice on how to repair myself and focus back on me.. cause im constantly thinking about what i did wrong and pouring blame on myself, and thinking about his feelings and not my own, and thinking about getting back together all the time? Help
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